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Letters: Churches chose cruelty and abuse instead of kindness and compassion

Rather than pointing fingers, let's find ways to assist those suffering from this intergenerational trauma to move forward with their lives.
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A memorial of little shoes to honour the 215 First Nations children whose remains were found buried at the former Kamloops Residential School was set up at Delta City Hall on May 31.

Editor:

Re: Reflections on past transgressions (Optimist, letters, June 24)

I was somewhat disturbed after reading the letter submitted by H. DeSousa regarding the recent discovery of unmarked graves at the former Kamloops Residential School.

DeSousa does go on to say that they do not condone the actions of the Religious orders (Catholics/others), and it would be prudent for all churches involved to apologize.

Agreed. These are no-brainers.

What I have issue with are the following comments:

Firstly, the comment that the Canadian Parliament failed to either maintain an active supervisory role or bring accountability for the transgressions that occurred in the schools. Maybe they did, maybe they didn't - I do not know for sure. Should they have created the schools - no. Should they accept some responsibility for what happened - yes. And they have. What I do know is that the Catholic Church and others had choices on how they would run the school. They had choices on how they would treat Indigenous children. Just because the government did not provide sufficient oversight does not mean the churches should have done what they did. The churches could easily have gone above and beyond what was expected and treated the children with kindness and compassion. Instead they chose cruelty and abuse. Saying these incidents probably would not have occurred if the government had not mandated these schools is just a case of white people pointing the finger at other white people. Blaming the government for their operating procedures is simply wrong. They had choices!

Secondly, DeSousa says that, 'humility and forgiveness are the cherished teachings of Christ.' Well, so is love and inclusion. Christ also said 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you' and 'children are a blessing and a gift from the Lord.' Where were those fundamental tenets of faith when the church was operating the school? Not first and foremost, that is becoming clear. Even Pope Frances - who should be setting the highest example of Christian values - has currently not stepped up and reached out a hand of apology or funding to assist in recovery. Why not?

Rather than pointing fingers, let's find ways to assist those suffering from this intergenerational trauma to move forward with their lives.

Karen Taipalus