Popular movies and television shows give the impression that the job of the father of the bride in a wedding is ultimately about making sure the festivities are adequately funded. In the movies, fathers fret about the costs of everything from flowers to photos.
But gone are the days when the father of the bride bankrolls his daughter's entire wedding. That frees up dad for other roles in wedding planning.
With some creativity, couples can find ways to incorporate the father of the bride into the festivities in even more productive ways: Wedding sites: Assign dear old dad the important task of looking at potential wedding reception sites prior to visiting them yourself. He may have certain connections through work or attended business or leisure occasions at catering halls and other venues. Dad's connections can pay off. Let him impart his negotiating skills and find the best deals with the ideal backdrop for the festivities.
Wardrobe: Let your father assist the best man and other groomsmen in securing their tuxedos or other wardrobe essentials. Dad also can step in and return rented items following the wedding.
Beverages: Dad may be fitting to keep tabs on what is occurring at the bar during the reception, ensuring that guests' needs are being met. He also can keep an eagle eye trained on anyone who may have overindulged and needs to take a break.
Speech: Give your father an opportunity to shine by letting him make a speech. Remember, this is a momentous day for dad as well, as he may be trying to come to terms with his daughter starting a new life.
Father-daughter song: Let dad pick fatherdaughter song, and go with his choice even if you had something else in mind.
Ceremony: Even if you prefer a less traditional wedding ceremony, let your father walk you down the aisle. This will likely be a moment he'll remember for years.
