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No one sets out to become addicted to something

Editor: Re: Kinder terms needed when dealing with addiction, letter to the editor, July 23 Thank you, Dane Tobias, for pointing out that health issues in all forms, including addiction issues, are not dirty.

Editor:

Re: Kinder terms needed when dealing with addiction, letter to the editor, July 23
Thank you, Dane Tobias, for pointing out that health issues in all forms, including addiction issues, are not dirty. And thank you, Ingrid Abbott, for reminding us that compassion and kindness are what are needed when trying to address and support the many and varied persons and families dealing with addiction issues.

"Drug addicts" are everywhere. So are addicts. There are slightly different and broad definitions of addiction depending on where you look. A standard dictionary defines addiction as "the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing or activity."

It is a complex condition. It is a brain disease. It is not a lack of willpower. I have always been dismayed that many individuals when talking about addicts are usually referring to those who have a problem with substances such as heroin, morphine, opiods, etc. Yes, the tragic circumstances and lives lost through such potent drugs are shattering.

But look closer. Most of us are addicts of some form or another. Do we not all have "dirty secrets?" Alcohol, cigarettes, anti-anxiety meds, sex, caffeine, inhalants, food, fitness, marijuana, gambling, work, social media. Some people are addicted to other people. The list is long.

No one sets out to become addicted to something. Most people can't choose the environment they are brought up in. Every one of us copes in life the best we can.

No one should feel ashamed or less of a person because they have a health issue, no matter what it is. It should not matter what part of the body it manifests in.

I believe this horrific pandemic has shown how caring and understanding we can be towards others. Let's try to include everyone under this umbrella. Including ourselves.

Jo Robertson